One of the conundrums in trauma therapy is that as therapists, we are trained and usually very good at being empathic. And for many of our clients, we see great success. But what do we do when our clients struggling with trauma and classic symptoms like flashbacks, nightmares, chronic pain and stiffness don’t respond to kindness and soothing?
When the hyper arousal of our nervous system doesn’t get released, it leads to symptoms like PTSD, like flashbacks and nightmares, but also physical symptoms like chronic pain, and stiffness in different parts of the body.
Trauma has emotional effects, cognitive effects, but primarily – it’s a physiological process. Until we begin to resolve it at the physiological level, we can’t start the emotional.
But when a person is deeply traumatized, their ability to read emotions is very much compromised, and they not in to take in take in the empathy. Clients often feel like they’ve done something wrong because they aren’t able to take in the kindness and soothing of the therapist. And the therapist is frustrated because they don’t know why what they’re doing isn’t working.
Trauma therapy isn’t successful until your client can own their life energy. But how do you help your patients heal without forcing them to re-live their past and tell their story? The answer begins with a slinky.
In this
free short video, you’ll see a transformational demonstration from Peter Levine, and learn why healing from trauma begins with accessing the body memory of the event, not the story.